Supporting You in Reclaiming Your Right to Pleasure
 As a Sex+Intimacy Guide and Mentor, I work with clients who:
  • ​​Want to explore and expand their capacity to experience pleasure in their own bodies, with others, and in life!
  •  Want to feel more empowered and expressive as a sexual being
  •  Want to cultivate more choice and voice in their sexual relationships, and lives at large
  • Desire to explore consent, boundaries and communication in intimate relationships 
  • Want to better understand their sexual anatomy - experience more sensation and expand orgasmic range
  • Want to experience more meaningful, satisfying and easeful intimate connections
  • ​Desire to navigate sexual differences in a relationship, and explore new erotic possibilities
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​The journey of erotic embodiment and sexual wellbeing  begins with curiosity, courage and presence. This process begins with slowing down...way down, with becoming present, opening up and listening to the unique language of your body. Wisdom resides in the body, and each one speaks differently. When we slow down and sit in the center of the Self, our voice, truth and wisdom become clearer. When we are able to feel into our breath, movement and sound, our senses awaken, we become grounded and feel connected to our whole being. It is from this place that sensual unfurling and discovery begins.

To access the wisdom of the body is one of the greatest acts of self love and bears the gift of profound personal empowerment. ​It is my great honor to accompany you on this journey of reconnecting with your source, and to facilitate safe and supportive sessions for your discovery and pleasure.
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I also work in the realm of:
  • Scar Tissue Remediation: Working with the "Seen and Unseen"
  • Whole Body Mapping: A Tool for Healing and Empowerment
  • Reorienting to Pleasure Post-Surgery, Postpartum, and Post Menopause
  • Healing From Past Sexual Abuse or Trauma
  • Ejaculation Choice: Working with PE, ED and DE
  • Prostate Education and Health
  • Discovering Your Erotic Blueprint™
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As a Sexological Bodyworker, I teach through full-body experiences designed to nurture, deepen and awaken the sensual self. Reclaiming our right to pleasure begins with this foundational empowerment.

I offer somatic sex education and coaching to curious, courageous explorers who wish to deepen and expand their capacity for pleasure. Utilizing tools of breathwork, mindful movement, conscious touch, communication and boundary/consent skills, I facilitate client-empowered experiences where people can learn how to rewire neural pathways to pleasure and learn how to have a new relationship with their bodies.​
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Working Together Could Be For You If:

  • You would like to feel more at home in your sexuality
  • You would like more confidence negotiating desire and communicating authentically about your boundaries
  • You desire to move beyond past beliefs, patterns, conditioning and shame
  • You are healing from sexual trauma or boundary violations
  • You wish to explore your capacity to experience heightened states of arousal, pleasure and orgasm
  • You feel as if you have a lack of libido or mismatched desires with your partner
  • You are struggling with sexual issues such as pelvic pain, scar tissue, erectile concerns or porn "addiction", and are interested in exploring the root of these things through a holistic and somatic lens.​​

Making Changes in our Unconscious Patterns and Habitual Reactions


SOMATIC SEX EDUCATION utilizes the new science of the brain and nervous system as a basis of expanding sexual happiness. With awareness of neuroplasticity we understand that the whole nervous system is continually changing - either learning and growing, or contracting and becoming inhibited. Just as muscles grow when we work out and atrophy when we do not, the brain and nervous system grow and evolve with more enrichment and diverse stimulation. We can create new practices and form new habits, including the habit of sexual happiness. We can expand erotic possibilities with positive experiences of physical pleasure. We can repair damaged attachment systems with experiences of feeling cherished in our sexuality, and encouraged and prized for who we are as erotic beings...and THIS is the work we will be doing together!

Our sexual habits and attitudes are built over a lifetime. Like any other habit, it takes dedicated awareness and time to change our relationship with our bodies and sexual nature.

 What happens in our body is linked to the thoughts and beliefs we have, as well as the education we've been given, which is generally fear-based and limited… and not inclusive of the various ranges of pleasure. It's also linked to the messages that come from our parents, from religion, from culture - all of which are subconsciously taken in to our minds and our bodies…and which greatly impact our sexuality...with self and with others.

All of this imprinting creates patterns…which develop over time. Giving our bodies new sensations, new experiences, new ways of feeling, new ways of breathing, is where we start to change/transform these patterns.
SLOOOWLY!…Our patterns have been there for a long time! 

Our sexual patterns are in our muscles, in our joints, in our nerves, in our breath, in the position of our bodies, and of course, in our genitals, in the tissue of our sexuality. Healing is about creating a pattern of change.  It's about opening, releasing, relaxing, letting go, allowing. ~Jonti Searll
Lessons From The Sexological Bodyworker's Massage Table 

​- I can learn what it is like to feel safe being seen
- I can learn to open more to pleasure
- I can learn that none of me is broken
- I can learn that all of me has pleasure potential
- I can learn how to surrender more to myself
- I can learn boundaries
- I can learn how to name my desires
​- I can learn that I am beautiful from the inside out
- I can learn that I have a huge expanse of pleasure potential in my entire body
- I can learn what feels good to my body and what does not
- I can let go of old wounds and release them
- I can feel what it is like not to be judged by my body or my desires
- I can learn that I am worth the time
- I can use the table as a place to give birth to myself
- I can learn that naming my desires does not mean that I will have them met in the moment and that doesn't mean that I am not cared about or that my desires are too much.
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AND...on the table, I am in a unique opportunity to engage in each and every one of the above - again and again - ever widening and ever deepening towards the soul.  ~ Pamela Madsen
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