Welcome to The Erotic Blueprints™!

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Created by renowned author and Somatic Sexologist, Jaiya, the Erotic Blueprint™ framework will help you discover the pleasure waiting, untapped, in your body right now...teaching you how to unlock your most satisfying pleasure possibilities...while uncovering and releasing cultural programming, hidden blocks, and obstacles that not only stunt your pleasure, but block the deeper connection, confidence, and fulfillment we've all been collectively starving for. 

It is time to reclaim our birthright of pleasure and follow it back to a place of peace in ourselves, our bodies, our relationships and our lives....so we can know and own ALL of ourselves and step into free, full and fearless self-expression! So whether you're bored, confused, lost, suppressed, or misrepresented, this comprehensive program can help you claim your desires and unlock healthy, erotic ecstasy. Everyone has a unique Erotic Blueprint. So if you're ready to uncover your map to ecstasy, it's time to experience your very own Erotic Blueprint Breakthrough!
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What's Your Erotic Blueprint™ Type?
There is an option for a FREE Quiz or a $17 Quiz.
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THE 5 EROTIC BLUEPRINT TYPES:
​• Energetic  • Sensual   • Sexual   • Kinky   • Shapeshifter

My Journey to The Erotic Blueprints™
​& How I May Support You!

Connie Eberhart | Master Trainer/Lead Coach | Somatic Sexologist
As one of four Master Trainer/Lead Coaches in The Erotic Blueprints™, I have been apprenticing and privately apprenticing with Jaiya since 2013, as well as traveling internationally to support her VIP events and clientele. Since 2016, clients have been traveling to work with me in Los Angeles, CA and/or Boulder, CO for Immersion Retreats catered to their own unique needs and goals.
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Immersion Retreats are 3-5 Days in Boulder, CO
​I may also travel to you or to a "Destination Vacation Location"

Know Your Pleasure

Discover who you are as an Erotic Being. What you enjoy and what you dislike, and how to communicate those things to your partner(s).

You’ll finally be able to communicate your needs and desires clearly and honestly. You’ll be able to explain the undeniable truth about your body.

​Aside from improving your sex life, your relationships will deepen and become filled with mutual excitement and satisfaction.

Own Your Pleasure

Break free from everything society has ever taught you to enjoy in the bedroom. Let go of beliefs, opinions, and thoughts that aren’t true to who you really are.

This act alone is what will get you started on a journey of self-acceptance. One where you’ll finally feel comfortable being yourself.

​You’ll be able to shamelessly play with your body, declare your boundaries, and create safe spaces to enjoy what feels good to you.

Live Your Pleasure

By equipping yourself with the full range of pleasure possibilities and erotic skills, you’ll finally be empowered enough to honor what you want and you’ll know how to get it.

Confident that you can satisfy your lover’s sexual interests and desires, you’ll become the ultimate lover.

​And what’s more is, you’ll be able to navigate your physical, hormonal, and emotional challenges. Because you’ll be your own sex detective.

The 5 Blueprint Types™
ENERGETIC BLUEPRINT
​ The Energetic is turned on by space, teasing, anticipation and yearning. They prefer light or hovering touch, eye contact and emotional connection. The Energetic loves and feels the sacredness in sex. They have the extraordinary Superpower of being able to have orgasms without even being touched!

The Energetics tend to be sensitive and need time to assimilate sexual touch; too much, too fast turns them off. On the Shadow side, getting caught in oversensitivity can create numbness and short-circuit their turn-on.
SENSUAL BLUEPRINT
A Sensual is turned on by all their senses being ignited: a delicious taste, a favorite song playing in the background, the smells of sensuality, colors and flowers and setting--Oh, and don't forget the style of touches: all over their body! Contouring touch. Melting, flesh to flesh!

A Sensual brings beauty to the erotic experience. Like Energetics, Sensuals opssess the Superpower of being able to orgasm without genital touch. On the Shadow side, Sensuals are notorious for getting caught in their heads and not being able to relax into a sexual encounter.
SEXUAL BLUEPRINT
The Sexual is turned on by what most people typically think of as "sex." Give a Sexual nudity, direct genital touch, penetration, and orgasms, and all is right in their world. Sex is fun and used to relax. It is also possible for them to get stuck in a limited view of sexuality and can be goal-oriented.

A Sexual is most likely able to go from zero to sixty in no time. They are simple in their sexuality, but do not lack a feeling of depth. The challenge with most Sexuals is that they miss the journey of a fully realized sexuality that invites and includes the pleasure of all the Erotic Blueprint Types.
KINKY BLUEPRINT
The Kinky is aroused by power dynamics, creativity/fantasy in sexual play, pushing the edges, and anything that feels taboo. And that can mean anything that is taboo for you: Love to be tied up or do lots of role-playing that feels naughty and edgy for you? You just might be a Kinky Type!

The biggest Superpower is that the Kinky is endlessly creative and playful. A common Shadow is that they often have deep shame about their taboo desires.
SHAPESHIFTER BLUEPRINT
The Shapeshifter is turned on by it all! They love it all, they want it all, and often want a lot of it. They have a huge appetite and a broad palate for many forms of pleasure.

The Shapeshifter is highly erotically intelligent. This often gets mistaken for being too complex or needy. One unique Superpower is that they can shapeshift to please any lover--it's like being able to speak many languages fluently. On the flip Shadow side of that coin, they may also be continually catering to the needs of their partner's Blueprint, instead of communicating what it is that they desire!

A Glimpse Into the Online Erotic Blueprint™ Program

Get What You Need to Experience Deep Connection and Satisfying Sex. This In-Depth Online Training Empowers You to Know Your Pleasure, Own Your Pleasure, and Live Your Pleasure!
  • Uncover more of who you are as a sexual being
  • Learn a language in which to communicate your sexual needs and desires
  • Understand and overcome sexual incompatibilities and create deeper compassion for one another
  • Unleash more passion, connection, sexual expression and aliveness in your love life
  • Experience turn-on and orgasms like never before
  • Reach states of arousal you have never before experienced
  • Become sexually alive and expressed...Expressed in ALL AREAS OF YOUR LIFE!​
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Just some of what you'll get...
  • Over 70 short (5-15 minutes), easy to digest, fun and actionable training videos that give you the sills, tools and pleasure practices to discover your turn-ons, express them and get them deliciously fulfilled
  • Heal the Shadows of your Sexuality so you are freed from the shackles of judgement and shame
  • Get LIFETIME MEMBERSHIP to our exclusive online community - The Erotic Freedom Club - with dozens of bonus video trainings - you'll always have something new to explore
  • Monthly Group Coaching Calls with our Erotic Blueprint Lead Coaches™ (Including Me!) 
  • Transform your love life with the 'Adventure Date Success System' Handbook and Video Training
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 Come to Boulder, CO
​for an Immersion Retreat!

Consider this your very own "Sex, Love & Goop" Experience!
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The Science of Sex + The Neurobiology of Trauma =
How Gain Access to Our SELVES!

​ALL OF YOU IS WELCOME HERE!