For over a decade, I have been helping COUPLES move beyond sexual limitations, reignite desire, and cultivate more playful, vibrant, authentically fulfilling and erotically charged lives. I help to:
RESOLVE: Physical & Emotional Challenges
DEEPEN: Trust & Intimate Connection
​IGNITE: Passion & Desire
I begin working with you at an INDIVIDUAL level: We all have physical and emotional scars, residue and fragmented parts of ourselves that have been imprinted into our soma and our psyche. I am trauma-trained, offering WHOLE bodywork, hands-on education, direct-experience learning and virtual integrative coaching over a period of time to address chronic symptoms at their root level.
Clients come to Boulder, CO for in-person sessions and Immersion Retreats
MEN | WOMEN | ALL GENDERS
  • STREAM (scar tissue remediation/trauma resolution)
  • Scars from birth, surgical or other medical procedures
  • Trauma from past abuse, neglect or boundary violations
  • Reconnecting to your body, desire and libido
  • Chronically held physical and emotional symptoms
  • Painful sex or erectile concerns
  • Singles re-entering the dating world
  • Navigating differing desires, libidos, or Erotic Blueprints™
  • Moving beyond trauma, shame, enduring or other patterns
  • Building a strong foundation for mutually fulfilling physical intimacy in a new relationship, and/or in preparation for entering into parenthood (or an "empty nest"!)
  • Rekindling passion, desire, erotic charge, polarity and playfulness in a long-term relationship 
  • Desire to explore, "There must be more!"
* I work with ALL genders and orientations

Supporting You in Reclaiming Your Right to Pleasure!

TOUCH/PLEASURE/CONNECTION as a Portal to HEALING and RESOURCE During Turbulent Times
The Physiology of Trauma + The Neurobiology of Connection + The Science of Pleasure/Sexuality
Trauma-Informed WHOLE Bodywork + Direct-Experience Learning + Integrative Coaching
For sooo many reasons, many of us are finding ourselves, maybe even unconsciously, in a state and expression of threat physiology. Our nervous systems are chronically hyper-aroused, frozen or even collapsed. And this could very well be showing up as challenges in our bodies and in our intimate connections; especially as it relates to our sexual expression. 
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Ease, Pleasure and Touch IS a crucial RESOURCE during these times!
If you are feeling challenged in your own body and vitality,
and/or your intimate relationship is suffering from a sexual impasse,
​I CAN HELP!
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Whether you feel inhibited in your sexual expression, frustrated by mismatched desires, curious about how to have more honest conversations about sex, or excited about the idea of expanded possibilities - I'VE GOT YOU!

Individual Healing | The Embodied Self

​Within each of our bodies resides a million year's worth of history, embedded in our being and our expressing.

​What has been your state of being?
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Are you desiring to experience more ease, pleasure, joy and vitality within your body and your life? If so...I can help!

​I am trauma trained. I provide hands-on education, direct-experience learning, WHOLE bodywork and integrative coaching to address chronic symptoms at their root level. 
I address physical and emotional symptoms through the lens of the Four Domains of Health (as taught by Ellen Heed):
​Biochemistry • Biomechanics • Emotions/Existential • Scar Tissue

​Together, we also explore trauma through the lens of the:
Personal • Developmental • Relational • Cultural • Intergenerational • Transpersonal

MEN | WOMEN | ALL GENDERS

Relational Healing | Embodied Intimate Relating ~ Work With Couples

Our ruptures, woundings and attachment tendencies were generated in relationship; and the opportunity for repair, re-patterning and reintegration of those fragmented pars of our Self also happens within the space and container of relationship. That container may be professional in nature, or within an intimate relationship. I offer guidance in touch and communication practices within each container.

In my work with couples, we always do parallel work on the individual realm, as well as the dynamics of what is suppressed or expressed, relationally.
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SAFETY + ATTUNEMENT + POLARITY = DEEPER INTIMATE CONNECTION
Devote 2025 as a Year of Deeper Intimate Connection and Playful Erotic Exploration!

Ways That I May Support You:

Why Include the Pelvis, Touch, Pleasure and/or Sexuality?

Our pelvis is the root of our sense of Safety, our Power, and our Desire (or lack, thereof). It is where we are most oppressed, suppressed or controlled; and where our greatest opportunity for reclamation of agency, sovereignty and liberation resides.

Tending and befriending our pelvis (safety + security) and sexual expression (creativity + aliveness) is where we heal individually, collectively, culturally and inter-generationally.

​It's imperative...and it's time!
INDIVIDUALLY, Are You Experiencing:
  • Trauma from birth, surgical or medical procedures?
  • Freezing, dissociating or distancing from your body & your desire?
  • Chronically held physical & emotional symptoms?
  • Shame or fear that is blocking your arousal?
  • Chronic symptoms from past trauma, neglect or boundary violations?
RELATIONALLY, Are You Experiencing:
  • Differences in desire, libido or Erotic Blueprint Type™?
  • Feelings of enduring, performing or caught in outdated scripts, patterns & conditioning?
  • A dance of sexual pursuer and distancer? 
  • Sex feeling like a duty or obligation?
  • Loss of curiosity & playful erotic exploration?
* I work with ALL genders and orientations

About Connie Eberhart:
Modalities I have studied that greatly inform my work: Biodynamic Cranial Sacral, Somatic Experiencing, IFS/Parts Work, Attachment Patterns, Polyvagal Theory, Deep Tissue & Emotional Release Work, NeuroAffective Touch, "Unshaming", and Personal Geometry.

​Other Influential Teachers: Peter Levine, Bessel van der Kolk, Stephen Porges, Sue Carter, Gabor Maté, Thomas Hübl, Jeff Foster, Esther Perel, Deb Dana, Diane Pool Heller, Irene Lyon, Joseph Kramer, Dr. Arielle Schwartz, David Bedrick, Luis Mojica, Liz Koch, Sarah Byrden & Sarah Baldwin.
For over 3 decades, I have been facilitating conversations and experiences around social and emotional development, health, wellness, and making conscious choices to support personal - and cultural - growth and transformation.
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In 2015 my work expanded to include
The Physiology of Trauma + The Neurobiology of Connection + The Science of Pleasure & Sexuality.
After all, how can we truly be FULLY WHOLE and AUTHENTICALLY EXPRESSED
​if we do not include the examination and cultivation our Erotic Nature?!
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​I have personally trained with many of the leading experts, and have been certified in numerous methodologies that uniquely qualify me to provide hands-on, trauma-informed, client-centered and somatic-based support that addresses sexual challenges and individual trauma at the root level; including chronic, complex, developmental and relational traumas.

Over the last 10 years, I have worked with several hundreds of individuals and couples who desire to experience not only vitality in their own body and life, but also crave the deep intimate connection and sexual satisfaction that reflects the deep love that they have for one another. (The beautiful gift that having lived in Los Angeles provided me: The opportunity to serve HUNDREDS of clients since 2015!)

I believe that when you get to the root of what is causing you to feel disconnected from the fullness of your own agency and sexuality, your expression and satisfaction in sexuality and ALL aspects of your life will be enhanced through this true healing and transformational journey!

I believe pleasure is a measure of health & vitality
in our personal, relational and collective Being!

People can tend to feel the pleasure is frivolous. Or that pleasure only refers to our sexual expression. However, the ability to soften into and savor the subtleties of what can be registered as "pleasurable" means that our nervous system feels "safe-enough", resourced and able to respond to the moment with curiosity, clarity, compassion and attunement. And from THERE is where we get to deliciously determine what intrigues, delights and lights us up!
 
To have pleasure, one must first have a Self. Most of us are functioning with very distorted perceptions of Self, and inhabiting bodies that are holding on to experiences, stories, conditioning and threat/survival strategies from the past. Therefore, we are operating from fragmented parts of ourselves that are rarely in present moment awareness. Our nervous system no longer knows how to feel landed, grounded, safe, and capable of identifying and reaching for what we desire. Or perhaps we no longer even know what it IS that we desire!

What once seemingly "worked" as it relates to sexual expression has usually been built upon the foundation of (first, from a lack of accurate sexual education) scripts, conditioning, enduring, shame, performance and/or unconscious protective strategies from past overwhelming experiences or boundary violations. ​
It is imperative that we feel safe in our own bodies. That we feel connected to Self and compelled to identify and reach for what brings us alive. To connect with and attune to others. To unravel survival strategies, imprints and social conditioning that cause fractures within ourselves, and our relations to others. Especially with our intimate partner(s)! Can you imagine how different your world will be, even the world will be, when we begin to make this a priority?!  THIS IS WHERE I CAN SUPPORT YOU!
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Since 2015, individuals and couples have traveled internationally to come to work with me for so many reasons. At the foundational level, there has become a disconnect with Self. Often this is noticed and expressed through the body via pain, numbness, or lack of sexual aliveness with self and/or with a partner. Relationally, there may be a mismatch in libido, erectile concerns, differing desires, difficulty in communicating boundaries and desires...or perhaps there is simply this feeling of ​“There must be more!”

Immersion Retreats | Boulder, CO | or I Come to You!

Retreat from your everyday duties and obligations and immerse yourself/yourselves in directing full attention and attunement and to you, your patterns, and what you desire! Learn to develop capacity for what you desire! Giving yourself anywhere from 3-5 days of Immersive Hands-on Education, Direct Experiential Learning, WHOLE Bodywork and Renegotiation of Patterns allows for the generation of new neural pathways that will become the foundation for new empowered choices that translate to the fullest expression of who you are, what you desire, and how you choose to live this one, beautiful life!

​​If you are a couple, you will return home with a deeper connection and tools to continue to co-create an intimate life that continues to unfold, deepen, expand and evolve. If you are single, you will return home with empowered choice and voice to create an intimate life that excites and enlivens you. Why wait any longer?
If you are interested in, and ready to book, an Immersion Retreat, let's set up a complimentary 60-minute Discovery Call so that we can get your preferred dates on the calendar! Come to beautiful Boulder, CO, I may travel to you, or we might even decide to travel to a "Destination Location"!
I have private AirBnb Lodging reserved for June 26-30th, 2025!
You are welcome to change the length of stay to accommodate your needs and desires!
Contact me to discuss!
You can also find me on BookRetreats.com!