Supporting You In Awakening Your Sensual Self

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​If you are on this page, you are already brave. If you are thinking about working with me, you are courageous.
​If you want to find the parts of you that life and the world have hidden and silenced, I honor your vulnerability.

The journey of erotic embodiment and sexual wellness begins with curiosity, courage and presence. This process begins with slowing down...way down, with becoming present, opening up and listening to the unique language of your body. Wisdom resides in the body, and each one speaks differently. When we slow down and sit in the center of the Self, our voice, truth and wisdom become clearer. When we are able to feel into our breath, movement and sound, our senses awaken, we become grounded and feel connected to our whole being.
It is from this place that sensual unfurling and discovery begins.

To access the wisdom of the body is one of the greatest acts of self love and bears the gift of profound personal empowerment. ​It is my great honor to accompany you on this journey of reconnecting with your source,
and to facilitate safe and supportive sessions for your discovery and pleasure.

Making Changes in our Unconscious Patterns and Habitual Reactions

As a Sexological Bodyworker, I teach through full-body experiences designed to nurture, deepen and awaken the sensual self. Reclaiming our right to pleasure begins with this foundational empowerment.

I offer somatic sex education and coaching to curious, courageous explorers who wish to deepen and expand their capacity for pleasure. Utilizing tools of breathwork, mindful movement, conscious touch, communication and boundary/empowerment/consent skills, I facilitate client-empowered experiences where people can learn how to rewire neural pathways to pleasure and learn how to have a new relationship with their bodies.
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Our sexual habits and attitudes are built over a lifetime.
Like any other habit, it takes continued work to change our relationship with our bodies and sex.

 ~What happens in our body is linked to the thoughts and beliefs we have, as well as the education we've been given, which is generally fear-based and limited… and not inclusive of the various ranges of pleasure. It's also linked to the messages/patterns that come from our parents, from religion, from culture,​ all of which are subconsciously taken in to our minds and our bodies…and which greatly impact our sexuality...with self and with others.

All of this imprinting creates patterns…which develop over time.
Giving our bodies new sensations, new experiences, new ways of feeling, new ways of breathing,
is where we start to change/transform these patterns.
SLOOOWLY!…Our patterns have been there for a long time! 

Our sexual patterns are in our muscles, in our joints, in our nerves, in our breath,
in the position of our bodies, and of course, in our genitals, in the tissue of our sexuality.
Healing is about creating a pattern of change. 
It's about opening, releasing, relaxing, letting go, allowing. 

Force creates resistance.
By going slooowwly, we create a pattern of change,
​we open pathways of release, we rewire, reconfigure our bodies. 
Slow touch....gentle touch...breathing...feeling...
connecting with our body...coming into the body...creating possibility!   (~Jonti Searll)

SOMATIC SEX EDUCATION utilizes the new science of the brain and nervous system as a basis of expanding sexual happiness. With awareness of neuroplasticity we understand that the whole nervous system is continually changing - either learning and growing, or contracting and becoming inhibited. Just as muscles grow when we when we work out and atrophy when we do not, the brain and nervous system grow and evolve with more enrichment and diverse stimulation. We can create new practices and form new habits, including the habit of sexual happiness. We can expand erotic possibilities with positive experiences of physical pleasure. We can repair damaged attachment systems with experiences of feeling cherished in our sexuality, and encouraged and prized for who we are as erotic beings...and THIS is the work we will be doing together!

Ways to Work With Me

• ​​"Pay-As-You-Go" Single Sessions
• Multiple Session Package
• Session Package with Email Support
• Session Package with Email and Phone/Zoom Coaching Support
• Add-on Jaiya's Core Erotic Blueprint Breakthrough Course
• Immersion Retreats (San Diego location, or I travel to you)

Immersion Retreats have been a wonderful way for individuals and couples to take the opportunity to remove themselves from their everyday duties and obligations, and immerse themselves into EMBODIED healing, learning and expanding at a pace that honors where each individual is at, and according to what stage* you find yourself in.

* The stages include Resting, Healing, Curious, Adventurous, and Transformational (Learn more here)

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