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Somatic Trauma Resolution

As INDIVIDUALS, we all have scars, reside and fragmented parts of ourselves that have imprinted into our soma and our psyche. They are not "bad", "wrong", or in need of "fixing"...but they DO point to where we may access more of our fullest expression of health. And while our pelvis, genitals and sexual expression do not necessarily have to be included in this exploration, I would offer that these are the ery places where we are most controlled and oppressed, and therefore where there may be the greatest potential for liberation, healing and integration of these fragmented aspects of ourselves.

As a COUPLE, scars and imprints from past individual and relational traumas may also hold us back from a full and playful expression of physical intimate connection. It's not just about learning new "tips and techniques". Could it also be that both a "high libido" and a "low libido" may actually be a coping strategy based on threat physiology within our nervous system? How about we map and track the state of each partner's nervous system, as well as consider the neurobiology of safety and connection, as well!
We begin with You…Feeling…YOU!

​We begin with exploring what imprints, loops, patterns, perhaps painful restrictions or limitations are preventing you from full, free expression of YOU!

​We start with the nervous system. With being able to continually come back to a baseline of ease and safety within your inherently wise body security system. Our bodies and lives are constantly bombarded with so much overwhelming stimuli and distraction, it is no wonder most of us have exited our bodies and are stuck in looping thoughts and tension patterns.

And from this already overstimulated and stressed-out state we are expecting to have deep, connected and meaningful sexual experiences? That is absolutely possible….AFTER we create a safe(r) space for you to inhabit all of YOU!
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Work with Individuals
Layers + Levels of Work
Work with Couples
What is the Nature of This Scar/Adhesion/Pattern?
Biochemical • Biomechanical • Emotional • Existential

What is the Nature of This Trauma?
Chronic • Developmental • Relational • Cultural • Historical • Collective • Intergenerational 
I was one of the 2018 certified graduates in Ellen Heed's STREAM (scar tissue remediation, education & management) training program. I have continued my training and mentorship with Ellen since then, and have had the great honor of serving clients in this capacity over the past eight years.

​I have also completed Levels 1-4 with Alchemical Alignment (Somatic tools for for trauma resolution and embodiment of spirit), with Brigit Viksnins. I continue to be an ongoing student of this profound system of learning, as well.

​This is NOT like going to get a "massage". This is a commitment to doing deep somatic work over a period of time as you not only unravel loops, imprints and patterns from the past, but you are also incorporating and integrating new empowered choices and practices as you build and strengthen new neural pathways to greater ease, joy, health and vitality. (And deeper connection and satisfaction!)
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STREAM: scar tissue remediation
Alchemical Alignment
STREAM
What we have believed, experienced and practiced over time, we have come to embody…literally. What generative new beliefs, experiences and practices can we install to create a whole new level of possibilities? THIS is where I may support you! And this also happens over a period of time.

Ideally we will be able to work together in person, via a combination of direct-experience learning and bodywork. There will also be virtual support that is available both prior to and following any in-person work. And even better….would be the opportunity to experience a series of bodywork sessions and/or Immersions over a period of time. However….we start with small, doable pieces. And any amount of time that we work together will surely support and inform any ongoing healing, growth and transformation.
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​​for an Immersion Retreat!

Consider this your very own "Sex, Love & Goop" Experience!
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The Science of Sex + The Neurobiology of Trauma =
How Gain Access to Our SELVES!

​ALL OF YOU IS WELCOME HERE!

​I am happy and honored to work in partnership with your current therapist, practitioner or team of practitioners. Because of the scope and nature of my work (including pleasure, arousal, sexuality and the WHOLE body!), this work can be very complimentary to the work that you have already been doing with other practitioners. And this could be the missing link allowing you to move through, integrate and alchemize past traumatic experiences!
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General Flow of Healing & Transformation:

Transformation does not happen in a straight line. Think of spirals, outside of time and space even. We flow through these states within a single session, within a week, over a period of months, years....and even lifetimes. 
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  1. Safety/Regulation/Co-regulation/Attunement
  2. Assess Blockages/Adhesions/Tension Patterns/Scars (Seen and Unseen)
  3. When resolve blockages…what is now flowing? (That was previously numbed or dissociated from?) Track what is arising. Be with. Witness with Compassion...Tenderness...Care.
  4. Orienting back to Safety. Increasing Resilience and Capacity. Increasing Window of Presence.
  5. From Safety, getting Curious and Brave. (Possibly exploring Pleasure, Arousal, Expression of Being...depending on YOUR intentions and desires.)
  6. Breath. Sound. Movement. Touch. Awareness. Attention.
  7. Slowing Down. Attending to Sensations/Feelings/Emotions. Nuances. Subtleties.
  8. In Relational Touch/Communication Practices: Attunement. Tracking what arises.
  9. Orienting back to Safety, as need be.
  10. Increasing Capacity for more Stimulation/Stimuli/Novelty.
  11. Alchemization. Integration.
  12. Meeting/Connecting With Self. Meeting/Connecting with Other. Attunement to Self. Attunement to Other.
  13. Being Witnessed. Seen. Felt. Heard. Understood. LOVED!
  14. Living into the Fullest Expression of YOU! Moment to Moment.

Other Sessions May Include:

Let's connect to discuss the potential and possibilities of our work together. The following are still only a sample: 
  • Body Mapping/Pleasure Mapping
  • Pleasure Waves/Expanding Orgasmic Potential
  • Anal Mapping. Not JUST the anus, but the whole pelvis! "Super-Highway to the Parasympathetic Nervous System!"
  • Erotic Blueprint™ Mapping
  • Erotic Trance and Various States/Tantra
  • Sensual Kink/Power Dynamics
  • Betty Martin's Wheel of Consent. Who is the Touch For? Parsing out Giving/Receiving/Taking/Allowing
  • Notice, Name, Trust, Value, & Communicate Desires and Limits
  • Sensual Kink, Polarity/Power Dynamics, Sensual Rope
  • And so much more!
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